Romance Scams

    Learn how romance scams work, spot the warning signs, and analyze suspicious messages from dating apps with ScamMessage.

    Romance scams are among the most emotionally and financially devastating forms of fraud. Scammers create fake profiles on dating apps, social media, or even use "wrong number" texts to initiate contact. They build an emotional connection over weeks or months before asking for money — often framed as an emergency, investment opportunity, or travel expense.

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    Warning Signs

    • "Wrong number" texts that lead to flirtatious conversation
    • Professing strong feelings very quickly (love bombing)
    • Always have excuses for not meeting in person or video calling
    • Sob stories followed by requests for money or cryptocurrency
    • Introducing "investment opportunities" after building trust

    Example Scam Messages

    Wrong number opener

    "Hey Jessica! It's me from the conference. Oh sorry, wrong number! But since we're here... you seem nice. Where are you from?"

    This is a classic pig butchering scam opener. The "wrong number" is intentional — they cast a wide net hoping someone will engage.

    Investment pitch after trust building

    "I've been making great returns on this crypto platform my uncle recommended. I want to share it with you because I care about your future. Here's the link..."

    After weeks of emotional bonding, the scammer introduces a fake investment platform designed to steal money.

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